This article is more than 2 years old Why are so many women writing about rough sex? And then we can have sex. Each reader can make up their own mind about how good the work is. But what is interesting about this rough sex is what it tells us about the current cultural moment. More often than not it is women writing it and female characters desiring it, and frequently those characters are using sadomasochistic sex as a way of processing their own trauma. For a few seconds she hears nothing, not even his breath. No, he says. Would you ever hit me?
We may earn money from the acquaintance on this page. By Lisa Fogarty Dec 5, One night, after also many whiskey sours, the conversation along with a group of my closest friends and I turned to sex. We're not a judge-y group, nor are we bashful when it comes en route for providing the intimate details of our sex lives. And, yet, when individual of my friends revealed that she falls off the orgasmic cliff after her boyfriend calls her a whore just as she's about to appear, she lowered her eyelids to the table.