How can I learn to love my single life? Photograph: Alamy Sun 30 May I have a good group of friends and several hobbies. I have reached the point where it all feels hopeless and I want to explore ways of feeling happier single, to quell this desire to find a mate.
All item on this page was elect by a Woman's Day editor. We may earn commission on some of the items you choose to accept. Apr 11, Getty Images Julie Coraccio spent 20 years in relationship so as to ultimately was not right for her. It hit her hard one calendar day that she had to let it go. Alone in her office, she fell to the floor in tears, grieving and feeling the sting of fear. Julie's story of a agree with chance at love is not at the same time as rare as you may think. Getty Images Although you may feel frisky about romance after disappointments, it is human nature to seek companionship after that comfort in the arms of a different. Our survival is more likely after we bond to another and accept the world as a team.
So as to being said, I also know firsthand what losing hope about finding adoration can feel like. Spoiler: It's not great. For those of you who haven't been there, let me dye you a picture. You've been definite for what feels like forever. The last person you met was actually great and you even saw a future with them. The two of you continued to see each erstwhile for weeks, months, or maybe constant years until you mustered up the courage to tell them how you felt. At that point, they offered up some excuse about why they're not looking for anything serious. This wouldn't be quite so tragic but this was the first time this ever happened.