If you are a man who really wants to please his partner in bed, read this. You educate yourself about the best ways to care for your partner during sex. Problem is, most of it is written by people who are really comfortable with their sexuality. As a man, your brain switches off during sex effortlessly. Your woman, however, is not necessarily able to switch off her brain easily. Yes, even if you use the most amazingly-wowza sex move that you came across, ever. Switching our brain off during sex is tricky for women due to a few reasons.