Significantly more men than women reported downloading pornography as a preferred activity. However, in the present small sample, several women were visually-oriented consumers of pornography. Two women with no prior history of interest in sadomasochistic sex discovered this type of behavior online and came to prefer it. Adverse consequences included depression and other emotional problems, social isolation, worsening of their sexual relationship with spouse or partner, harm done to their marriage or primary relationship, exposure of children to online pornography or masturbation, career loss or decreased job performance, other financial consequences, and in some cases, legal consequences. Although some therapists were very helpful, others were uninformed about the nature and extent of sexual activities available online and reportedly 1 minimized the significance of the cybersex behavior and did not accept it for the powerful addiction it was, 2 failed to make it a priority to stop illegal or self-destructive behaviors, and 3 did not consider the effect of the cybersex involvement on the spouse or partner. Introduction With the rapidly enlarging role of computers in homes and offices, psychotherapists and addiction counselors are increasingly seeing clients with a new problem, cybersex addiction. Inabout one in four regular Internet users, or 21 million Americans, visited one of the more than 60, sex sites on the Web at least once a month New York Times, Oct.
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