Part of the problem is that men have a tendency to treat a casual hook up like a human Fleshlight. The other problem is that frankly, a lot of men suck in bed. Remember what I said about the plumbing diagrams? Hell, studies have found that men and women have equal likelihood of not being able to find the clitoris on a diagram. The penis, on the other hand, has been studied and celebrated pretty much as soon as humans figured out abstract reasoning and symbolic representation. Once again, we can blame porn for teaching generations of men that all it takes to make a woman orgasm is a horse-sized cock and the ability to imitate a flesh jackhammer. Many women prefer indirect contact, whether to the side or just above the glans.
I can totally understand why older men go for younger women. Time creates wisdom — but it also creates responsibilities and complications — mortgage, kids, career, etc. All of this makes dating more and more complex at the same time as we get older. Still, most of them fail miserably, for the accurate same reasons that I think Penelope is suggesting. Older men want a good deal younger women, but rarely do a good deal younger women want older men. She can find that same amazing chap at age Or Around is nothing wrong with aging.
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